Lawrence Jerome Steen

Lawrence "Larry" Steen, age 90 of Grand Forks, ND, died on Wednesday, June 4, 2025 at Valley Senior Living on Columbia in Grand Forks, ND.

We are heartbroken to share the passing of Lawrence "Larry" Steen, a man whose presence could light up a room, whose jokes often left the room mid-laugh, and whose kindness left a lasting mark on everyone lucky enough to know him. If you spent any time around Larry, you knew a joke was coming by the twinkle in his eye and the sly smirk that signaled something unforgettable was about to be said. His humor, timing, and big-hearted nature were all part of what made Larry so beloved.

Larry was born on May 12, 1935, in Grand Forks, North Dakota. That day often fell on Mother's Day, as he liked to point out. "The first most important holiday," he'd say with a grin, "followed closely by my birthday." That playful charm stayed with him throughout his life.

He began working at age fifteen at the North Dakota State Mill and later spent six years with the Great Northern Railroad, which is now Burlington Northern. At the age of twenty-four, Larry moved to Long Beach, California, with his wife Beverly and their eleven-month-old daughter, Vickie. They were a young family chasing something new. He began work at Pacific Valves, where he joined his brothers Charles and Ardell. Larry remained with Pacific Valves for forty-one years before retiring, a true testament to his dedication and resilience.

In 2001, Larry and Beverly returned to Grand Forks. Retirement did not slow Larry down. He spent thirteen years working at Central High School, where he became a warm and familiar face to students and staff. He also worked nearly twenty years at the Ralph Engelstad Arena. There, he became a fixture at Sioux hockey games and a favorite among fans, players, and coworkers. Whether he was scanning tickets or sharing a laugh, Larry brought energy and warmth to every game. His pride in the team and his community was unmistakable, and his presence at the arena left a lasting impression on everyone who passed through.

Larry also spent three years with Express Employment. He loved stopping by the office to chat and tease the staff, always with good humor and always with a smile. If Larry gave you a hard time, it meant he thought highly of you.

Larry's independent spirit showed in everything he did. He rode his bike and bowled well into his eighties. Bowling was another passion of Larry's; he played in two leagues and was known for throwing one of the hardest balls. He bowled in California and was a regular at Grand Forks' Red Ray Lanes. He was also a devoted fan of hockey and girls' basketball. Larry loved stopping by the bank to visit and bring smiles with his friendly teasing. If Larry teased you, you were someone special in his book.

Some of Larry's favorite adventures were with the "Three Musketeers," Larry, his beloved wife Beverly, and her sister Bunny Knopke (née Capouch). They did everything together, moving through life as one unit: full of laughter, loyalty, and love. Their favorite destination? The casino. They rarely won, but that was never the point. It was the time together—the teasing, the shared meals, the quiet car rides home—that mattered most. Those memories are woven into every corner of their lives and are carried forward by everyone who witnessed their special bond.

Larry was preceded in death by his beloved wife, Beverly (née Capouch); his parents, Florence (née Crawford) and Olger Steen; his brothers, Charles, Ardell, Butch, and Roger Steen; and his sister, Bonnie Montgomery (née Steen).

He is survived by his daughter, Vickie Mayer (née Steen); his grandchildren, Ryan Mayer and Sarah Duquette (née Mayer), along with her husband, Will Duquette; his sister-in-law, Bunny Knopke; two nieces: Debe Mayers (née Johnson) and her husband, Dan, with their daughter, Shelby; and Diane Clement (née Johnson) and her husband, Dave, with their son, Casey; his older brother Donald Steen and his wife, Marlene, and their children, Rick, Marty, Casey, Kelly, Jody, and Scotty Steen.

Larry lived fully, laughed loudly, and loved deeply. That is a life beautifully lived.

Celebration of Life for Larry Steen

Thursday, June 26 at the Norman Funeral Home
2:00 PM – 3:00 PM Indoor Visitation
3:00 PM – 3:30 PM Graveside Service

Whether you join us for part or all of the afternoon, your presence is appreciated.

What to Bring
• Flowers or a thoughtful item in Larry's honor (optional)
• Weather-appropriate items (umbrella for sun or rain)

Additional Info
• Coffee and water will be provided.
• No meal or reception will follow.
• The gravesite is located on the other side of the funeral home grounds. Guests are welcome to walk, but it may be a bit far for some. Driving and following staff is encouraged.

We'll raise a glass of Moscato at the gravesite. Larry's choice, not ours.